Hi, I'm Blu
I help women and couples create the intimate, connected relationships they've always wanted—without the shame, confusion, or endless guessing games.
A Little of My Story...
Intimacy always felt like a mystery—something we were just supposed to know, but no one actually talked about.
Growing up, pleasure and desire were either ignored or whispered about like secrets, which only made me more curious. 🤔
Then, in college, I took a Human Sexuality course, and BOOM—mind blown. I realized intimacy isn't just about sex; it's about feeling safe, seen, and truly connected to yourself and your partner.
But even with all that knowledge, I still struggled in my own relationships.
I spent years thinking something was wrong with me for not wanting sex as often as my partner did. I struggled with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, and actually asking for what I wanted (sound familiar?).
I felt disconnected from my own desires and frustrated that intimacy felt more like a chore than something enjoyable.
That's when I realized: knowing about intimacy and actually experiencing it are two completely different things.
My "Aha" Moment
After years of feeling like I was failing at relationships, I discovered that none of this was about me being "broken"—it was about not having the right tools, support, and understanding of how intimacy actually works.
I learned that:
- Desire isn't always spontaneous (and that's totally normal!)
- Communication about intimate topics is a skill that can be learned
- Sexual shame affects almost everyone, but it doesn't have to control your life
- Every person and relationship is unique—there's no "one size fits all" approach
This realization changed everything for me, and it's what led me to become a Certified Relationship & Sex Therapist.
My Approach
I use a warm, no-judgment approach combined with proven, science-backed strategies to help you:
✨ Communicate openly about your needs and desires
✨ Rebuild connection when it feels lost
✨ Release shame that's been holding you back
✨ Create intimacy that feels natural and exciting
✨ Build lasting skills for your relationship
Whether you're working on reconnecting with your own desires as a woman or rebuilding connection as a couple, I meet you exactly where you are—no judgment, just genuine support and expert guidance.
My Credentials
🎓 Certified Relationship & Sex Therapist with AASECT certification
✨ 7+ years of experience in intimacy and relationship coaching
💖 Helped hundreds of women and couples create the relationships they desire
🌈 Ongoing education in trauma-informed care, ethical non-monogamy, and LGBTQ+ affirming practices
7+
years of
experience
150+
Couple Clients
Served
200+
individual clients
served
fun facts
About Me
➡️ I’m always on the hunt for new books about psychology, relationships, and intimacy (I have quite the collection!) .
➡️ I’m a fur baby mom of 2 cats and 1 Frenchie.
➡️ My favorite morning drink is a Tangerine tea.
➡️ My favorite way to “get in the mood” is a nice hot shower.
➡️ I am extremely intuitive and empathic.
Wondering if coaching is right for you?
Book a FREE 20-minute consultation call and get all of your questions answered today!
This is your chance to:
- Share what's going on in your relationship
- Get clarity on your specific situation
- See if we're a good fit to work together
- Ask any questions about the coaching process
No pressure, no commitment—just honest conversation about your relationship goals.
I Want My Free Consultation!Ready to feel good in your skin and confident in the bedroom?
Here's a Few Ways I Can Help You...
Intimacy Coaching For Women
Perfect for getting clarity and immediate support with your specific intimacy challenges.
Relationship & Couples Coaching
Ideal for people in relationships & couples who are ready to start reconnecting and addressing specific relationship challenges.
