The Pleasure Posse
The only monthly membership designed to help women feel confident in their body, empowered to ask for what they want in the bedroom, and actually enjoy sexânot just crossing off another thing on their to-do list.
This is the place for you even if having kids, weight yo-yoing or (peri)menopause has made you hate looking in the mirror & tanked your self-esteem.
All for less than the cost of a casual dinner with a friend.

SAVE THOUSANDS OVER 1:1 COACHING!
Founding Member Price:
Only $37/month
(thatâs just $1.23 a day)
⌠for the coaching and support you need to feel confident AF in your body, sexy in the bedroom and everywhere else, and full of vibrant energy, whether youâre single or in a relationship.
You get 24/7 access to the community. NO CONTRACTS. CANCEL ANYTIME.
Not to mention, if you wanted to work with me privately, it would currently cost you $10,000 per year. Making the Intimate Pleasure Lounge the most AFFORDABLE way to access coaching from me.
I WANT TO JOIN!Here's What You Get When You Join The Intimate Pleasure Lounge TodayâŚ
Your 7-step journey looks like:
Step 1: Feel Sexy in Your Skin
If youâve been thinking, âI donât even feel like myself anymore,â this is where we change that.
Youâll use my Glow Up Methodâa quick, daily body-based practiceâto reconnect with your senses, feel more present in your body, and finally start feeling good again.
This step helps you:
âď¸ Reclaim confidence in your bodyâeven if youâve been hiding it for years
âď¸ Reignite your spark without needing to feel âin the moodâ first
âď¸ Shift from shut down and disconnected to energized and full of life
When you feel safe and sexy in your own skin, desire starts to return naturally. And from there, intimacy gets easier, deeper, and way more fun.
Step 2: Turn Up the Heat
Most of us got stuck with garbage sex educationâand it shows. This step gives you the Pleasure-Focused Sex Ed you shouldâve had.
Youâll learn:
âď¸ How arousal actually works (hint: itâs not supposed to be instant)
âď¸ What your Desire Type isâand how to work with it, not against it
âď¸ Where your pleasure zones are and how to activate them with confidence
âď¸ How to create intimacy that feels good for youânot performative or pressured
When you understand how your body responds to pleasure, you stop guessingâand start craving connection that feels real, safe, and wildly satisfying.
Step 3: Deeper Connections
Whether youâre in a relationship or flying solo, this step teaches you how to create and sustain real intimacyâemotional and physicalâwithout waiting for it to âjust happen.â
Youâll learn:
âď¸ How to rebuild trust, warmth, and emotional closeness in everyday moments
âď¸ Tools to increase intimacy that donât require sex or long conversations
âď¸ Simple, powerful ways to feel more connectedâwith a partner or with yourself
âď¸ How to turn emotional distance into mutual care, playfulness, and desire
Because deep, fulfilling intimacy starts with intentionânot effort that drains you.
And when you feel emotionally seen and physically safe? Everything else flows more easily.
Step 4: No More Miss Nice Girl
This step is where you reclaim your voiceâand itâs a total game changer.
Youâll learn how to confidently express what you want, need, and donât wantâwithout feeling like you have to protect your partnerâs feelings or feeling guilty for being honest.
Through respectful communication, youâll discover how to create emotional and physical safety by speaking your truth with clarity and care. This is about honoring yourself while building deeper intimacy with others.
With practical tools and empowering scripts, youâll be able to speak up with confidence and create connectionânot just in the bedroom, but in every part of your life.
Step 5: Rewrite the Damn Script
This is where you take your power back.
So many women carry quiet stories like:
âIâm broken.â
âIâm not sexual enough.â
âI shouldnât want more.â
âMy pleasure doesnât matter.â
In this step, we gently unravel those old, shame-soaked beliefsâand replace them with truths that honor your real desires, needs, and worth.
Through guided reflection and powerful mindset shifts, youâll begin rewriting your intimacy story into one that feels liberating, joyful, and fully your own.
Step 6: Sexuality at Any Age
Perimenopause and menopause can feel like someone hit the brakes on your desireâbut that doesnât mean your intimacy era is over.
In fact, it might just be the beginning of your boldest, most empowered chapter yet.
This step helps you understand the physical and emotional changes happening in your bodyâwithout fear, shame, or judgment.
Youâll learn how to:
âď¸ Adapt to your bodyâs evolving needs with compassion
âď¸ Create pleasure on your termsânot based on how things used to be
âď¸ Reclaim your sensuality in a way that feels grounded, present, and powerful
This isnât about âbouncing backââitâs about moving forward with wisdom, softness, and a whole new kind of fire.
Step 7: Awaken Your Erotic Self
This is where you come home to your full, unapologetic erotic power.
We explore your fantasies, your orgasmic potential, and the magic of self-pleasureânot as something secret or shameful, but as a vital, sacred part of who you are.
Youâll learn how to:
âď¸ Access pleasure for yourselfâwithout pressure, performance, or needing anyone else to turn you on
âď¸ Reconnect to desire as something that lights you up from the inside out
âď¸ Express your erotic self with freedom, joy, and embodied confidence
This isnât about pleasing anyone else.
This is about feeling alive, radiant, and fully expressed in your own body.
#2: Twice Monthly Q+A Calls with Me (Blu, Your Expert Pleasure Coach)
These are NOT your typical awkward, âcan someone else go first?â Zoom calls where no one asks the juicy stuff. Nope. Not here.
If youâve ever seen me live or in the DMs, you already knowâthis is where the real transformation happens.
Bring any question about libido, desire, emotional connection, communication blocks, self-pleasure, body confidenceâall of it. Nothing is too taboo, too weird, or too âsillyâ to bring into this space.
Iâll give you clear, compassionate answersâbut also real action steps you can take that week to deepen connection, feel more turned on, and reclaim your pleasure.
We do just 2 calls a month for a reason:
You show up to a call, get what you need, and spend the next week putting it into practice.
Then we do it again.
And again.
Until pleasure, confidence, and connection start to feel like your new normal.
#3: The Pleasure Library (aka your on-demand intimacy toolbox)
ON TOP of your Foundations Course, youâll get access to one BRAND-NEW resource every single monthâeach one designed to help you reconnect with your body, deepen intimacy, and turn on your pleasure power in everyday life.
These trainings are bite-sized, beautiful, and actually doableâso youâre not just learning, youâre transforming.
And when you join, you get immediate access to everything thatâs already been released, including juicy tools like:
âď¸ How to Reconnect to Your Body + Rediscover Pleasure in 30 Days Course
âď¸ How to Handle Rejection with Grace Course
âď¸ How to Initiate Sex to Hear More Yeses Course
âď¸ 50 Moments of Pleasure Checklist
âď¸ The Pleasure Pathway Worksheet
âď¸ Rewriting Your Pleasure Story Journal Prompts
âď¸ Mindful Practices in Under 3 Minutes (body, object, and eating meditations)
âď¸Romantic Massage Techniques
âď¸ Sensual Exploration Guide
âď¸ Erotic Games for Couples
âď¸ Passionate Communication Scripts
This library is your go-to space for staying inspired, supported, and turned onâmonth after month.
Think of it as your personal pleasure practice hub, where you can come back anytime you need a nudge, a ritual, or a reminder that you deserve to feel good.
#4: 24/7 Access to the Intimate Pleasure Lounge (Hosted in Skool)
Canât wait for the next live call? Feeling stuck in the moment and need a quick check-in? This is your 24/7/365 pleasure-powered support zone.
Ask any questionâfrom âIs this normal?â to âHow do I bring this up to my partner?ââand get support from me and a community of women who get it.
Celebrate your wins, share your struggles, swap sexy ideas, and stay inspiredâall in a distraction-free space (no Aunt Sueâs weird Facebook rants, no coworker lunch pics, no pressure).
This is your safe, private space to gain clarity, grow, and connect!

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Plus, These MAJOR Bonuses to Support You On Your Pleasure Empowerment Journey With Ease, Confidence, and Joy
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đĄ This is your shortcut to more intimacy, more playfulness, and more YES in the bedroomâwithout waiting weeks or needing your partner to âfigure it out.â
Itâs the perfect way to start your journey inside the Lounge
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How to Get Your Desire BackâEven If Intimacy Feels Like a Chore
In this live training, youâll learn what actually shuts down desire (hint: itâs not your fault)âand how to gently reignite it, even if you think itâs dead and gone.
Youâll walk away understanding your unique Desire Type yes, there are more than 1 kind!) and how to turn yourself onâmentally, emotionally, and physicallyâwithout waiting for the mood to magically strike.
Canât make it live? No worriesâthere will be a replay!
The Pleasure Pack
A 3-day guided journey to get out of your head, reconnect with yourself, and feel good AF in your skin.
The Pleasure Pack is your reset.
Your gentle, guided experience into The Intimate Pleasure Lounge.
Your soft landing after too many days of giving, doing, and pushing through.
It helps you get out of your head so you can be more presentâso you can reconnect with yourself and slow down long enough to actually experience the goodness in and around you.
Because you deserve to slow the F down and focus on you for a minute.
Hereâs whatâs inside:
Day 1: Chill the F Out Meditation
A grounding meditation to calm your nervous system and melt the stress off your body.
Day 2: Reawaken Your Senses Meditation
A sensual experience to reawaken your five senses and help you feel alive again.
Day 3: Ready to Receive Affirmations
Audio mantras to root you in worthiness, open you to pleasure, and give yourself full permission to receive.
PLUS: Stay Calm and Pleasure On JournalÂ
A 30-day pleasure-focused journal to help you keep the momentum, be pleasure focused and devoted to yourself every day.
 đ BONUS #1: The âReignite the Sparkâ 5-Day Connection Challenge
(Fast-track your intimacyâeven if things feel distant, tense, or stuck)
If youâve been feeling disconnected from your partner, struggling to get in the mood, or wondering where the spark wentâthis is your soft, sexy reset.
Inside this 5-day challenge, youâll get quick, doable intimacy rituals that gently build emotional and physical connection. 1 video a day + 1 homework assignment = deep, satisfying, intimate connection.
Youâll get:
⨠5 connection-boosting prompts you can do solo or with your partner
⨠Sensual touch and communication exercises that create instant closeness
⨠Mantras to increase confidence in your body-image and sensual desires
⨠One simple, powerful practice each day that gets you results right away